Hi Valerie! Toasting the wheat berries brings out their natural flavor. You can do the same with soft wheat berries, and you can leave this step out as you wish, as the boiling step will cook the berries. We have not tested and do not recommend cooking wheat berries in the microwave.
In your directions you say to toast the berries. What does that do and can I leave this step out? Can you use the same cooking method for soft wheat berries? Also is it possible to cook the wheat berries in the microwave? Thank you for your help.